Partners in crime since 2005.
Our first “date” was a secret. We held hands under a blanket so our friends wouldn’t notice and didn’t tell them we were together for at least another two months.
started a podcast to stop the fighting
Seven years in, our marriage was struggling so we decided to record a few conversations and send them to friends for mediation + moral support.
Fast forward to now… We're still figuring this whole thing out as we go, but thankfully have learned A LOT through the process of creating this show.
It all began over a clean pile of laundry
Jessie was immediately annoyed by Gerard's OCD folding tendencies, but little did she know that those very same creases would be gracing her own t-shirts over a dozen years later.
Married at 22 + together 12 years later
The whole night was a blur (despite the fact that we were both completely sober) but our favorite memory was leaving on the scooter we bought for ourselves as a joint wedding gift.
Our marriage mantras
Talking things out and tight bear hugs fix almost anything.
There is no such thing as a perfect marriage but every partner deserves the gift of Great Love.
The right mix of love + laughter is the best recipe for a healthy relationship.
"I'm so excited about the next season! Every episode sparks great conversation between my husband and I. The recent episode about missed “anniversary expectations” brought to light a similar situation in our own family. Thank you for pushing us all towards deeper connection and great love!" — Ellen
"My husband and I just found your podcast a few weeks ago and have been listening to it in tandem and talking about it weekly. We refuse to miss a single episode and thank you so much for everything! " — Keely + Trent
We do not have children.
Gerard has a robust work ethic.
Jessie is a creative entrepreneur.